Oh Boy............ !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have hit on my number one pet peeve in this business....
Several years ago... I gave a little talk to two organizations...
One... the NABBI convention held in Long Beach, CA and Two... the CBAA convention held also in Long Beach, CA....
I think several of you were there... I know Tony was at both...
I never understood why either of these groups would ask and old country bondsman, who has never broke a million in bonds in a year... to get up in front of the largest Bail Bonds state association... California... and give a talk on "Attitude and Appearance"... I mean really??? what the hell could I possibly tell the most sophisticated group of bondmen in the country about how to write bail and how to look professional...
Most of those in attendance were dressed very well... but that was not a particularly informal meeting and most had on business suits, ties and such...
Anyway... I really don't think they were impressed with my tongue in cheek presentation...
As those that know me will attest... I tell tales to try and teach a lesson... most are dotted with little bits of humor... which is of course a matter of opinion...
I got the impression from many of those in those meetings that they looked upon me as just what I am... an old school bondsman from a rural Virginia community... which frankly is all I have ever tried to be.
"Appearance and Attitude" is so damn important that I cannot stress it enough.
I frankly get tired of reading, watching, seeing on Facebook, You-tube and other social media sources... those that tout their pseudo-successes in fugitive recovery or bonding experiences... and put forth a persona that absolutely makes us look like a bunch of redneck clowns... that's right... a bunch of foul talking, uneducated clowns who think this is Dodge City.
Yes, I have been caught having to do a recovery while on vacation and dressed like I was at Disneyland... but I can tell you that on the occasions that I actually have to go to court or the jail or in any other venue where I need to be seen as a professional bondsman... I dress accordingly... I don't like coat and ties but I always have on a decent pair of pants, shirt and try to look and act as professional as possible...
I don't know if we can save this industry... really... there are just so many "yahoos" in this business... it is hard to impress those that we need to .... I just don't know if we can save it...
Bill, you hit the nail on the head....................... there are certainly times that you may want to look like you just fell of a turnip truck but others that you need to dress and act like you are a professional not the ones you are bonding...
I certainly have been caught in a not so professional dress while making a recovery... TACTICAL SANDALS AND ALL......
... but when I need to look professional... I can fool the best of them.... almost...
It's ok to play the fool some of the time... but know when and where... but always be prepared to be the professional you need to be... at any time... cause you never know who is noticing you and forming a lasting impression and opinion... Nuff said..............