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I am still baffled by the guys that say that age, being in good physical condition and being able to handle physical situations is not a major factor in this work. While I whole heartedly agree that MOST cases can be worked out in a civilized manner with proper respect between both parties, I still wind up tangling with at least three guys a month.
Maybe you are looking for that type of action??... me...... I like reading about those stories, not enacting them.
I am old, fat and have had both knees replaced, 3 back operations... I can't run, but I know how to use a telephone... and I am extremely good at talking my way out of most situations... and I have some very large, experienced, interesting friends that will come to my aid on a moments notice... even when I was young, big and bad and after 12 years of extensive martial arts training and a lot of pretty belts on the wall... I always knew that the next corner could produce someone... bigger and badder than me. I am now an 'egg mcmuffin'.
There is an old saying............ "Just because you are big don't mean you are bad..." Physical works fine in football and cage fighting... brainpower and thinking power will always win over brawn... every time... that is why we are at the top of the food chain and not the lions, tigers and bears.
As your years increase, your testosterone level will unfortunately decrease... not all at once... you may not even realize it... then one morning you will wake up, look in the mirror and say... "I don't think I will get in a fight today... I think I will have a cup of coffee and call my backup..." on that day you will have matured a lot more... and you may live a lot longer and have a lot fewer mishaps in this profession...
In 10 or more years in this business, I may have picked up a few skips and I can not think of one single one that got physical with me.... not one.... (they may have run, but not toward me) maybe I am lucky and then again... maybe I am using something that many cannot fathom.... a bit more brainpower.... and frankly... I'm not really that smart... just smart enough to know my limitations and react to those facts...
Remember this if nothing else.................... There is no really good reason to get in a physical confrontation with someone... even if they seem to start it... you can react in a manner that is smarter... step around and behind your backup... unless of course you have no backup ............. then just shoot for center mass.... you know the saying... "Never start a fight with an old man... if he can't whip you, he will just shoot you."
Ghee, did I just erase all my advice with the last sentence... uh, disregard that... I always talk myself into and out of advice whenever possible... hopefully this post still has a bit of wisdom in it.... maybe.